Tuesday, August 18, 2009

I too had a love story!!




I happened to borrow a book from a colleague of mine ten days ago.. Only cos the title of it was catchy!!



“I TOO HAD A LOVE STORY” by Ravinder Singh.



As the title depict, it’s the real life story of the author. A very delicate Love Story!!



The book kept me completely occupied thru out. It was more like reading a personal diary of the author when he narrates the real feel, excitement, hugs, kisses, emotion, tears, pains etc etc.



I don’t believe in “falling in love” with a person over Internet chats or thru telephone talks without meeting in person even once. I feel it’s the body language of a person that would give you a wider picture about a person’s nature & character, which will eventually make you like a person. I have known many real life matrimony proposals, which had failed after meeting in person. But this story was so believable. Someone had been success in making a right decision jus by talks over phone & Internet.



Before I divert more from the topic, the story is all about a guy [Ravin] who falls in love with a gal [Khushi] who he came across on Shaadi.com. They meet after 3-4 months of serious relationship over phone & the engagement date is all fixed. Unfortunately the girl gets caught into an accident coupla days before her engagement, which eventually pushes her into coma. And after all tears, prayers & struggles she passes away in coma itself.



Somewhere I have read a quote “The ones you love the most, will be taken away too soon”!!



If someone had to go outta your life too soon, why should god show them to us?!



If someone had to leave us in tears for rest of our life, why should they make us smile with the very thought of them?



If someone had to be let go off, why do they hold our hands with so much of love?



If someone had to squeeze the blood out of ur heart while its still alive, why would they give life to its existence?!!!



Lots of questions in life are by no means answered. But time will make you understand why that person was into your life and what difference he/she made to you and your life.


Trust me, when some leaves a footprint in your heart & life, they are worth living in your thoughts. They are worth being a part of your life.

According to me, if someone you love gone astray, it only means they are god sent guardian angels for a reason and they quit when the intention is met.

Love is more about relishing what had happened and not about questioning why it happened.

Don’t cry cosit’s over smile because it happened!! :-)


Am aware, Things are easier said than done!

2 comments:

Neel said...

The Thought Provokness distilled over few lines are worth appreciating.I liked it as it brings out the Beauty of a Human Relationship.

In Short:

"Its not about living with a Person U love the Most, but living with the Person U cannot stay Without.."

Neel

கொடும்பாவி-Kodumpavi said...

God is not taking anyone whom you love. God has shown you the 'love' for the period of they stay with you. even you hate some one who still loves you is the 'real' love others are 'reel' love.

-Kodumpavai