I am a li'l finger tied with a topic I've chosen to type about.
I'm basically a relationship person! As in, I'm too emotional and very tenacious. A perfect Cancerian for that matter. I'll try to cling on to a relationship until I'm broken till my claws and badly hurt. When I'm into a relationship with a person, my expectations are NIL. I don't make friends with anyone thinking about the advantages I'd have outta that relationship & am never selfish.
But when i look back the years i have walked on this earth, very very few persons have been really good and have made me cherish that relationship. Many have only failed to continue pretending to be good as days go by.
Why do people pretend in a relationship?!
Is it because, they have selfish reasons or they just try to impress the other person in the relationship?! When they take so much of an effort to impress someone, why is that they don't care to continue being so? Y is that they allow their mask to worn out unknowingly or knowingly?! In this modern world, when the globe has become certainly small by means of Internet and other communication mediums, when we are able to find even the big fat guy in the 1st row during our kinder garden days or that tall nerd gal at the back bench during our higher secondary , why does it seem to be a big challenge to catch up with a real true friend to discuss about the tough times we undergoing?!
Y Relation[Friend]ship break?
If its a relationship between a couple, there are various reasons for the relationship to break. It could be anything starting from a small misunderstanding, ego, complex etc until monetary terms, illegal relationships etc. But y do friendship break?!! What do people really expect outta friends?! A companion for all times or jus a company for movie or shopping or jus to party?!!
Yeah!! In this corporate world.. People have friends only for FUN!! Many would be annoyed even to discuss about love relationships, credit status, etc to their so called BEST FRIEND!! Many wont even make time to ring their friends once in a while!!
These days people have 100's of friends in their Orkut or Facebook account.. But call them for a party or a get together, the ones who are busy orkutting all day long cannot make time for the get together in the real world!!
You lose touch.. Relationships break.. Even the ones that you'd cherished for years will become distanted the moment you decide to return their calls later!
You become selfish.. Relationships break.. Even the ones who r selfless will walk away as time goes if u be selfish!
You become BUSY.. Relationships break.. Even the ones who made time for you in their busy schedule while u were jobless will be gone!!
You become EGOSTIC.. Relationships break.. Even the ones who called or mailed you umpteen number of times in spite of you not spending time, will be gone once for all!!
This is the reality.. Face it!!
Be a good friend to get one!!
Never lose a good relation[friend]ship, trust me it takes a lifetime to find a new one again!!!!!!!!!!!
1 comment:
As you said.. EGO is the first enemy of the friendship/relationship 'Why should I?' kind of question blocks you to go further. OR presenting the thoughts in a different way to make the friend understand will show how you understand your friend.
//Never lose a good relation[friend]ship, trust me it takes a lifetime to find a new one again!!!!!!!! //
are really very valuable words.
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